Happily DeMarried is an ongoing discussion about getting divorced, learning from the experience, keeping your kids safe from grown-up strife, and building, maintaining - or even just envisioning a healthy new relationship with your ex. Happily DeMarried is a choice. It's an active decision to defy societal expectations that divorce has to be miserable, and to recognize that moving forward is much healthier and more gratifying than trying to replay the past in an effort to win the battle of who's wrong and who's right. Ultimately, Happily DeMarried is an acknowledgement that the only person you can control is you - and that no battle rages for long when only one person is willing to fight. Make no mistake: it's not about giving up. It's about growing up - and moving on.